It’s a question you ask yourself, on a case-by-case basis. Think of someone, how you feel about them, what they mean to you. Do you care more about this person being happy and safe than another person, even yourself? Only you can answer that question.
He’s the most important person in my life. I just know that I want him to be happy, even if it’s not with me. For me, what makes him happy matters more than what makes me happy.
[This is what happens when you’re a child raised by absentee parents and expected to be selfless and perfect, then you get tapped as a Wild Card in the world of Personas.]
Some people might say their own happiness is more important, but I’ve never believed that. It’s all up to the individual.
[You know what. That’s an excellent point. “Partners” means doing things together. Maybe Souji’s been alone for too much of his life to not need that reminder.]
You're welcome! I hope it helps and is a good talk.
[And maybe she'll lurk in their Leafs and learn more about how humans value each other! Yayyyy. She definitely won't learn more bad habits from another wildcard.]
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But please explain! What makes the happiness of one person more important than another? How does someone rank the value of happiness?
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It’s a question you ask yourself, on a case-by-case basis. Think of someone, how you feel about them, what they mean to you. Do you care more about this person being happy and safe than another person, even yourself? Only you can answer that question.
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But you and Yosuke are both human. Aren't you? So how do you decide?
(before he bails)
He’s the most important person in my life. I just know that I want him to be happy, even if it’s not with me. For me, what makes him happy matters more than what makes me happy.
[This is what happens when you’re a child raised by absentee parents and expected to be selfless and perfect, then you get tapped as a Wild Card in the world of Personas.]
Some people might say their own happiness is more important, but I’ve never believed that. It’s all up to the individual.
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[She can't tell if that's good or bad. It doesn't sound bad according to her programming, but...]
People have told me, the way I think is wrong. But it sounds like what you're doing, too. Maybe we're both right. Maybe we're both wrong.
If he is your partner, you should decide together, what's important. That's what partners are for. If I had one, I would ask them.
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You’re right. I should talk to him. And I will.
Thank you.
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[And maybe she'll lurk in their Leafs and learn more about how humans value each other! Yayyyy. She definitely won't learn more bad habits from another wildcard.]